Love defined

We desperately search all our lives for something. Some search for fame, others fortune, and of course there are those of us that desperately search for our one true love. Some would say it is believed that true love is only a chemistry match. Other believe that true love is simply a match of two people who share some common grounds that spend a certain amount of time together and are found compatible. Some doubt the existance of real love, true love, or any love at all. Yet somewhere they have a small hope that one day love will brush by them and captivate them completely.

Love has no boundaries. No lines, no rules, no preducies, and no limits. It's the one thing in life (outside of God) that has no limitations except as far as one allows. You can not love someone unless you allow yourself. Sometimes we don't allow others to love us and they do. Sometimes we are fortunate and many love us or perhaps more fortunate to find only one person that truly loves us. Either way love is what our lives hunger for even if we hate to admit it.

There are 3 loves in life that have no definition. That truly can not be defined by any amount of words that are labled on any page of any book in any time since the beginning til the end of time. True love, Mother's love, and God's Love . These three loves are unconditional and without waiver. True love is the most rare. God's love is existant even if we dont love him back. God loves us no matter what we do or don't do, how we live or don't live...no matter what God loves us.

THEN Mother's love... a true mother, loves her child no matter what that child does. No matter what that child becomes a real mother loves and supports that child thru all their lives and all their decisions. (It seems that in this day and time of life...this kind of love is becoming sooo rare.) THEN last there's TRUE LOVE. Something we grow up as children thinking and dreaming about. Even as young as our imaginations develop we hunger and hope and search for true love. But so many people don't find that true love as soon as they hope so they give up hope, believe or search for. OR perhaps they are like me.. Some people truly search for it all their lives. Hunger for it. CRAVE it like someone craves their favorite snack. Anxiously looking from side to side from face to face and one day grows tired of looking.

In this life, I have learned 2 things. 1 - Put God first and he will give you the desires of your heart. Even his word tells us this - Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you. and 2 - True love is real.

Since a child I've despearately longed to be Cinderella. To find the man of my dreams waiting for me as I did for him. I searched and searched and only found a handful of brokenness and a broken heart. I one day put aside the hope of true love and settled for the next best thing (or so I thought) comfortable love. Sadly even this leads to the same place. Then thru so much heart ache I learned that no one can love us like God loves us and once we accept God as our love. We can find that human love that we so desperately long for.

Maybe I'm rushing (which is something I'm quite known for) and maybe I'm not. But for the first time I believe that I am loved in the exact way I always wanted to be loved. Sometimes the words aren't there, but they are not necessary. Things we never thought we'd see, we do. Things we never thought we feel, exist. After all that dreaming we did for so long, it seems perfectly worthwhile. Something so beautiful does exist. Beyond this life I kno there is that someone who loves me in the way that I need.

This by no means discredits anyone who loves another with all of their might. Nor does it make their love less valuable or meaningful. But truly it is so rare to find a love that loves you in the way that you need to be loved.

With love comes heartache and with heart ache comes love. One thing that is for sure a bird can not be with a fish it is said. For a fish belongs in the sea and the bird in the air. But for 2 to be together, a fish must find a fish and a bird a bird. I hope my dearest friend(s), that you find that fish that is looking for you.Someone that knows which way you like to swim and understands your needs. Someone that holds your hand and gives you everything. I believe I have found a bird that knows my call. He knows which way I fly without telling him and he knows which song to sing. Though the story is sad but true no matter what in the end a bird must fly and a fish must swim and they can not exist in the same place. Out there somewhere is your fish waiting so desperately for you.